I love poking conventional wisdom in the eye. I think that what this new client is going to let me do.
A few weeks back I had a chat with a venture capitalist who had a higher opinion of his knowledge of social media than I did. When he told me that Facebook and Twitter had filled the social network space and there just wasn't room for anything else, I found myself resisting the urge to ROFL.
And my very next business connection, re-enforced my belief that social networking, like social media, has only just begun. Not all things have been invented yet. I got reminded that just when the conventional wisdom declared that Search was a worthless category, a couple of Stanford kids started Google.
Later that day, my old friend Azhar Khan contacted me with a clear example of where social networking can and will go. I knew Azhar from Riya, which he co-founded and where I consulted. Later Riya became Like.com and was recently purchased by Google. It had evolved into something far different--and apparently more valuable--than the photo recognition software we had launched in 2006.
Azhar showed me something which is clearly a new kind of social network, one that has two very intelligent twists or so it seems to me. First, it is for people who want to find dates. Second, the person seeking a date issues a challenge. It can be something like "show me your best dance move," or "write a song about me. It's all done on user-generated video.
Take a look at the final alpha site. It tells you a lot about how it works. The people you see were recruited mostly on the streets of Santa Cruz, but they are real people and capture a sense of how the site will work.
I'm going to help the Challenge Dating team take the next step and go into live beta sometime in the next few weeks. It is for women seeking men, men seeking women, as well as same sex dates.
But instead of the company holding the cameras, the challengers will upload their own videos and those wishing to meet the challenge will upload videos as well.
There is much tweaking to do. I'm pre-announcing what we are up to now, because we want user and viewer feedback. In the end, people who use a social network rule the social network. Is Challenge Dating something you would use? Do you think you might visit because it will be entertaining.
How far away can a date live and still be geographically desirable. How can we make dating safe? Do you think the network will grow on it's own once we release it or do we need to offer some sort of incentives?
Please tell me what you think. Please tell me how we can make this better.
I am looking for unconventional wisdom. It makes far more interesting and valuable companies than conventionality allows.








































